Meet with confidence

Intentional dating works best when you feel safe. Keep these tips in mind before you meet a match.

Get to know them in the app first

Keep conversations inside Date With Intent until you feel comfortable. Notice if their story stays consistent and if they respect your pace.
Look for the VIP badge

The VIP badge means a member's ID was reviewed. It is a good sign, but it is not a guarantee, so keep using your own judgment.
Meet in a public place

Choose a busy restaurant or venue for the first few dates. Arrange your own transportation so you can leave whenever you want.
Tell a friend your plans

Share who you are meeting, where and when. Check in with your friend during and after the date.
Keep personal details private

Hold off on sharing your home address, workplace or financial details until you really know someone.
Never send money

Do not send money or gift cards to someone you have not met, whatever the reason. Report anyone who asks.
Trust your instincts

If something feels off, leave. You can report or block anyone from their full profile in Discover.

See something wrong?

Report or block a profile from its full view in Discover. In an emergency, contact your local emergency services first.